I’m guest-blogging today over at Multitaskinmom.com. Come on over and read about what child-led learning is and isn’t, and how it relates (or doesn’t relate) to unschooling!
I don’t know about you, but by the beginning of May, you can stick me with a fork because I’m done. I’m tired. I’m worn out from all the curricular AND extracurricular activities. I’m barely hanging on, and the words you’ll hear most often from my mouth those days are, “just skip it!” My homeschooling mojo has left the building. My inspiration lies wet and soggy somewhere underneath a pile of once shiny-new ideas. I need a pick-me-up, and a Starbucks Mocha Frappuccino with almond milk just won’t do. I’m experiencing homeschool burnout.
I’ve been through this before. Many times. Here are three things that have helped me avoid homeschool burnout (in order).
Stop Feeling Guilty
I know you feel it. You can’t deny it. We homeschool moms are the ones who begin each year with our polished new ideas and clean schedules and high hopes. When we get to May and are reminded of all the ways in which our ideas didn’t pan out, we feel awful. It’s to be expected. But guilt (or remorse or regret) just don’t serve us. Throw those feelings away and replace them with a mind open to learning why those ideas didn’t pan out. For me, it’s usually because of one of these three things: (more…)
When you are homeschooling high school, one of your major goals may be to have your kids get accepted into the college of their choice. If this is your goal, and the goal of your student, you will want to avoid these 5 biggest mistakes when homeschooling high school.
Not Checking Your State’s Requirements
You will need to check out the homeschool requirements in your state during the middle school years. Many of you who know me, know that I am a big proponent of skipping middle school. (Blog post on that to come.) Checking your state requirements is very important, and you will find that requirements vary widely from state to state and they might change every year. A simple online search will provide the information you need and keep you updated. After you understand what the requirements are, develop a plan, with the input of your student. Make sure that you have covered the legal requirements and the course requirements of that state as you homeschool.
Not Meeting College Admission Requirements
Every college will have a different set of requirements for admission. You need to know what the exact requirements are of each college you seek so that you can prepare adequately for the same. There are specific and blanket requirements for almost all colleges that you should know about. These include 4 years of English and Math, 3 to 4 years of social studies and sciences, 2 years of PE, and foreign languages, etc. Electives requirements will differ from college to college. When you know this, you will homeschool your child in such a manner that will enable them to get into the best colleges out there.
Not Beefing up the Transcript
One of the benefits of homeschooling high school is that your students have the opportunity to explore a vast range of subjects and activities. Discover your child’s interests and talents and provide opportunities for them to practice these talents and explore these options. Add these to the homeschool transcript and showcase their strengths.
Not Covering the Basics Well
Basics cover writing, reading and mathematics. It is important to ensure that your child has a very good basic foundation. When they have a good foundation, they will be able to use these skills to and apply them to whatever subjects they decide to study in college. Many incoming college freshman require remedial classes, because they did not fully learn the basics well. See our online video courses at Our Happy Medium Academy for effective courses on the basics that your student can complete at his/her own pace.
Not Reviewing Your Plan
Making a plan is a great first step! You should review your plan every 6 months to a year to be able to keep focused on the bigger picture. This will allow you time to make changes in academics or extra-curricular as needed.
If you take care of these mistakes, you will find it easy to focus on homeschooling your children and prepare them for a good college in future if that is indeed their goal.
Please welcome guest blogger, Amanda Stockdale. I think we must have been separated at birth, because this post makes my heart sing, and makes me want to stand up and shout, YES! A thousand times, YES
My long-time readers know that I am ALL about child-led learning. I have written about, and spoken at homeschool conferences on the importance of child-led learning, and I love Amanda’s post because there is so much beauty and truth here.
I use to be a 4th grade teacher.
It was my dream job.
I loved everything about being in a classroom.
Then my third year of public school teaching hit.
This was a bit different.
I was a new mommy.
I wasn’t entering that year as a new teacher any more. I didn’t have those innocent teacher eyes.
I had mommy eyes.
As each day passed, it got harder and harder to stand in front of my classroom with mommy eyes.
You see this class was different than any other class I’ve had before.
I taught preschool for 9 years before becoming a public school teacher. I had seen it all…
…and conquered it all with success.
But this year, I had a 4th grade boy who was the most precious, hard working student I had ever taught.
He was on a first grade reading level. (more…)
Being in the kitchen isn’t one of my favorite things, unless I’m preserving the bounty of my garden, or making a new batch of sauerkraut. It’s just not my thing. It’s not my “blue flame” as Jennifer Fulweiler might put it. I get that people enjoy cooking and that it’s a creative outlet for them. I get that people enjoy showcasing this skill for their friends and family. I even have friends who do this and who say, Cooking for my family is how I show my love for them. I don’t get that. If that applied to our home, my meals would say, Dear family, eh, you’re okay, and here are some chicken nuggets to prove my lukewarm feelings for you. Luckily, I stumbled upon some pretty good tips for healthy meal planning around our busy life, and they will help you, too.
Good Planning = Extra Time
Seriously, though. I don’t want my family eating junk, and I don’t serve it to them. The crappiest food we eat around here are chicken nuggets and tater tots, although we do sometimes order Jersey Mikes on gluten-free subs. We eat gluten-free, mostly dairy-free, and a lot of other-things-free, too. We are mindful of eating healthy foods, but the hard part is that it’s just so time consuming making sure that we have these healthy meals and snacks ready for when we need them. And it makes me want to cry if we don’t.
A self-admitted curriculum junkie. I covet homeschool curriculum of all types, sizes and shapes. I love homeschool curriculum giveaways for this very reason. Digital curriculum, hard-cover books, manipulatives, workbooks, you name it: it’s on my wish list. I think one thing I love so much about being a homeschool evaluator, and consultant is that I have the opportunity to see and review (and talk about) curriculum every day!
I also know that I am not the only one who loves getting the mail and seeing the Christianbook.com sale flyers just sitting there waiting to be dog-eared and marked up. I have so many things on my wish list from those sale catalogs!
Final August Homeschool Giveaway
The giveaways here at Our Happy Medium for the month of August have blessed so many of you, and I want to keep that going! This time, for our final giveaway this month, I decided to partner with some homeschool blogger friends to bring you a Christianbook.com gift card worth $100!
Purchasing Homeschool Curriculum Online
I have ordered almost all of our homeschool curriculum from Christianbook.com this year, and just yesterday called their customer service to ask a few questions about something new we’re trying. (Blog post on that to come.) As always, their customer service rep was super-fast to answer, really knowledgeable and helpful, and really nice! If you haven’t ordered from this company before, I highly recommend them. They have coupons for free shipping very often and frequently run great sales in addition to their already lower prices. Will you be the winner this time? Please note that by entering this giveaway you are agreeing to be added to our email lists.